Addendum to 'Microinequity'

Many thanks to MDH, who left a comment so promptly, for spotting which hadiths I was refering to in my earlier post.

The first is from Sahih Bukhari, Volume 8, Book 74, Number 305:
Narrated 'Abdullah:
The Prophet said, "When you are three persons sitting together, then no two of you should hold secret counsel excluding the third person until you are with some other people too, for that would grieve him."

The second is from Sahih Muslim, Book 1, Number 65:
It is narrated on the authority of Jabir that he heard the (Holy Prophet) say: A Muslim is he from whose hand and tongue the Muslim's are safe.

There were several variations (different isnads etc), but I selected one each to be placed here. MDH, I need to learn from you how search properly! Or is it just perseverance?